HOW CAN A SHY GIRL FLIRT/ GAIN CONFIDENCE????????

So I've been pretty shy my whole life. I'm 13. I like this guy alot. So first of all, how can a shy girl flirt with a popular guy (whom I've never really talked to!!) second, how can a shy girl like myself, gain confidence so she can flirt?? Thanksss %26lt;3HOW CAN A SHY GIRL FLIRT/ GAIN CONFIDENCE????????
well first of all u should start making yourself look attractive.


when you do this you will have more confidence to talk to guys. also the guys maybe the firsst ones flirting with you.


get high grades or do something that you are talented in (something you like)--you will make more friend that way and you will feel better about yourself.





anyways just ask him for some homework help and you too could go to the library and you'll have him all to yourself. so it will be more easier to flirt with him.


u can also tell him a funny joke etc......





good luck :)HOW CAN A SHY GIRL FLIRT/ GAIN CONFIDENCE????????
Well a lot of confidence building comes unfortunately with age. During your teenage years you'll start to form and identity, and with that you'll see yourself grow more comfortable with parts of yourself you might have been insecure about before. As for being shy maybe just try having a simple conversation with him, and don't see him as better than you, just view him as another person.
you just have to put your self out there that's the only way you can be confidence i'm exactly like you i'm in your place right now but what i do is the thing i'm afraid of do that what i do like acting in front of big crows of people i'm in acting class even though i'm really shy i get up there and do it and i do well i stubble i just keep going and just laugh it off and try again or i'm bad a speech but i try to be brave and i get up in front of class yesterday and i did it and i was so proud of my self my friends said i was good which i though i was ok i though he did a better job but i have to give my self credit cause i at least tried and got the nerve to get up there unlike everyone else! i want to become a actor and take all my shyness way maybe you should be a actor too !! hehehe the key to not being shy is act like you can do anything thing and really believe in your self cause when you believe in your self and act confident every guy want a girl to be confidence her self they don't like girl that talk bad about other girl or them cause what guy want to hear a girl say i hate my legs,or hair,or i think i'm ugly no guy! just do stuff you wouldn't normally and do it cause when you do that it's like you can do anything
start of small look at him once every so often until he looks back at you and then look away as if you were just looking around


that way he will get interested in why you keep on looking at him and he will start to wonder


that will suck him into curiousity and he will end up talking to you once he starts talking to him jsut try and make genral conversation like how he is and that sorta stuff that way you will be able to get to know him


and he will get to kno you and that would proabably end up with what you want to happen
just be yourself. what you should do is walk by and knock his pencil off his desk, act embarrassed and pick it up and put it on his desk, smile (mouth closed, softly, less intimidating) and say, 'sorry.' then, you should ask him for an answer on a homework assignment. if he sits anywhere near you during class, make kinda a big show of asking ur friends a question, (make sure they dont know how to do it) then turn to him, sigh and say, 'did YOU get the answer to # 7???'


talk to him like this about 10 or 15 times, about two every week, and eventually you'll be close friends, then kick it up a notch from friend to girlfriend.


haha i did this. pretty good relationship. i was 13 at the time too!! hahaha good luck
im 13 and was really super shy, and still can be but i've come over my 'shyness' by telling my self who gives a ****?


just start talking to him and flirt. simple.





you're probably scared someone will think you're stupid or make fun but if they do, they must have nothing better to do right? and there fore are not even worth your time.


laugh at your mistakes and just do it, because you might not be able tomorrow
Well it doesn't matter if you're a girl or a guy, we all feel the same way when it comes to that one person that we like. Personally, I'm shy when it comes to girls. I guess, though, that you have to get to know the person first, then flirt or ask 'em out.
I am a shy person myself, but I guess sometimes I tend to flirt without noticing it. My advice is that you go up to him and ask him a simple question or do survey and ask him for his opinion just a simple way to start a conversation.
Start off small. Try talking to guys who are less popular, then work your way up to this guy. I know it might take a while, but it's worth it in the end!
start by talking to them ask for the number, myspace, facebook or twitter flirt with them on that and then ull b ok
I'm shy too so you're definitely not alone. If you like the guy I suggest befriending him first. Then it would be much easier to go from there.
smack a peanut upside yo head
ur too yung too worry over this ur grow out of it :)
have u try ed lucid dreams once you had practice in your dream u can try for real